$ ps axSO -C \ o user,pid,pcpu,pmem,\ vsz,rss,stat,time,comm
(make an alias)
$ ps axSO -C \ o user,pid,pcpu,pmem,\ vsz,rss,stat,time,comm
(make an alias)
-S: include CPU from dead child processes in the parent = --cumulative
-eo (UNIX-style) is equivalent to axo (BSD-style)
bsdtime vs cputime=time